A friend or more?

An acquaintance of mine recently asked me this question - do u believe that a guy and a girl can be friend or good friends and not get involved romantically? Good question, but answer is rather unclear. I would say there is no ONE fix answer to this question. Depends on who HE is and who SHE is. As we all know, love can happen in a funny and unexpected way sometimes. Like for example today I may think Mr. A is friend material, but another day Mr. A might blossom into a "driver" material. Hahaha...for those who don't know me, my expectation of a bf is very simple. He has to be my driver. So I always refer to a bf as a driver. (at least that makes him useful in some way)

But back to that question. After thinking about it, I realised what the heck, most of my friends are guys! So now I am wondering do guys see me as a guy instead of a girl!!!! Maybe that's why some guys can't tell when I actually do like them romantically. Coz they think I am only a guy. O ya...Paul and I have a question. Does guy who had sex change operations (and at the same time retain their malehood) get to have sex with themselves? That would be pretty convenient, wouldn't it? Like the snails or was that the earthworm?

Aargh, I diverted again! So anyway, I think there are no reasons why a guy and a girl can't maintain a nice clean platonic friendship. In fact from personal opinion, sometimes I find you can talk to a guy more openly about a lot of nonsense things without them shrinking back and gasping in shock at u. And I think vice versa, guys enjoy a woman's opinions to things that happen in their life especially when seeking advice on how to chase some chick or how to make their gf fall hopelessly for them. I actually learn a lot from my male friends which I am sure none of my female friends would have been able to teach me. Like what kind of bra strap looks yucky. Or what kind of underwear (or none) looks sexy under a white pants. Hahaha..in fact today I even learn that guys prefer the girls not to move when having sex :-p Don't ask me why am I learning this (*angelic smile*) I only absorb information passed on to me :)

My conclusion as I told this nice male acquaintance of mine that asked me the Q, is that from the beginning of a friendship, it is best to specify that you will not be interested to have any kind of relationship with that person besides friendship only. Actually I never do that. But someone did it to me and I learnt from it. Ah...another thing I learnt from a guy :)

But what the heck! U can't stop someone from developing feelings for you right? We all just got to learn to be big adults and deal with it as it comes along. Think out of the box, and open your door to all possibilities :)

Have a happy PEAK ghost festival folks! (23 minutes more as I am writing this) Those who wanna go ghost hunting are invited to join me and MC on our ghost watching feat on Saturday :D Remember......think out of the box!!!!!

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